The Call Back, I feel like a rookie wtf

[damha21]

I went to a party the other night out of the blue. Did not plan it. Just kinda went with the flow. I was pretty wasted, because I wasnt intending to game that night. And I dont remember a great deal of how I approached these girls. All I know is that they snatched my phone and put their numbers in without me askin them. This one girl, (calm down I dont have oneitis), she was seriously digging me. I remember dancing hard with her, and then tryin to help her find her coat that she lost (some Northface jacket lost in the coat check at the frat). Also noteworthy is I was drunk, but she apparently wasnt. Yet she was almost taking care of me. Asking me to call her, or she would call me. And making sure I got home ok that night.

Context all aside. I feel like a fucking rookie for some strange reason (I aint a rookie, and anyone who's read my other posts probably realizes that). This girl though is different, she might have been the female version of the AFC. But not really cause she's HB-8 at worst (I like to say she's a 9). Anyway, again im off point. I know texting is bad, but should I call her, or facebook friend her first. I dont even know why I'm askin this. Maybe I do have oneitis. I mean if I fuck up, who cares?! But I gotta learn to close without hesitation. And for some reason I am hesitating. Any Ideas people?

[Tarzan]

Weird situation my friend... but challenges are always good.

Don't facebook friend her... Haha, in modern society, that can count as a sign of weakness. Or at least, that's how i'm shifting the technicalities to prove. The way I see it, if you facebook friend her, you're asking to be a part of her life. No matter how gay that sounds, that's about as clear as it gets. Make her send you the request. You're the interesting one bro!

The texting/calling thing's a bit trickier. I text... who gives a shit, you know? Negs and all that stuff works the same through a text. Maybe better, even. If you can be charismatic through a text... play it!

Calling would work though. Some dudes would say to skip out and wait for her to call you, but you can lose a chick pretty easily that way. Either way, communicate. Two days after. Minimum.

[damha21]

You make a lot of sense with the facebook argument. I was thinkin facebook = creepy haha. But yeah I was so confused. Because I had my phone basically snatched outta my hand. With these girl's numbers. And one texted me her first name. And later that night her last name. Like while we danced! Wtf haha. But alright, so a text is not out of the question. I thought you know calling would be more personal, but like you said who cares. So that problem's solved. I'll get back to you on what her reaction is. Thanks bro. Man I love my life so fucking complicated hahahahaha.

[damha21]

So after a series of texts. Along these lines:

Me: You'll never guess what happened to me! I lost my jacket too it got ripped! (Of course I lied).

Her: Oh that sucks

Me: You went to this high school right?

Her: Yeah

Me: Do you know so and so

Her: OMG yes I love him

Me: I make fun of him, her, etc. blah blah blah

Me: I gotta go. But we'll hang real soon haha. Name a day and time and I'll disagree and tell you the real day and time haha. Take it easy.

No response after this yet. But I think I got her. Her mind is prolly spinning ha. I'd like to add the fact that neither of us mentioned each others names.

[damha21]

As if I wasnt already polluting the forum with MY problems haha.

This got so complicated its not even about the game anymore haha. Unless I strip it down to certains facts about the story. So it goes from closing to a possible a role reversal here. As I mentioned before I was drunk out of my mind. Somehow I was able to dance and get numbers from the girls. Now since I was drunk I really wasnt trying to game her. She took a liking to me, snatched my phone and put her full name and number into it. So its not like she did the "player" thing which is just get the dude's digits. Then she took me to dance and I remember her playin me taking my cap and wearing it... And I remember this: She told me to call her or she was gonna call me. We're past that point, but you would think she's diggin me right. Here's the twist (without all the bullshit that has to do with my personal life, who knows who, she knows him, blah blah coincidences you guys don't get any use of): She has a BF since her Prom. WHY do ladies do this?

[rebel41]

Maybe she just actually wanted to be friends and make sure you got home ok.

Chicks are retarded.

[Tarzan]

Word. There was a chick I knew from high school once... Amazing body. I would've done nasty things to her.

She invited me over to her new apartment for dinner... I obviously accepted, thinking I'd somehow eradicated all doubts of failure, only to have her talk to me nonstop about her current BF. Not the good kind of talking (for us) either; it was the "Oh em gee! He's sooo great! I love him!"

Needless to say, I cancelled the dinner. I had no interest in friendship or her personality. Only her lady parts.

Same business too. She was throwing IOI's like snowballs in December. Some chicks really are retarded.

[damha21]

Brothas I dropped that hoe. She said I was a shit show. I told her my friends said I made out and danced with an ugly chick. Rated her a 5. That shut her up. And I deleted her number. Haha. Seriously now, I'm not gaming unless I'm sober. But i'm not fuckin givin up alcohol yeah right hahahaha. I'm pissed that she kept politely texting me takin me away from my studies when I have fuckin huge exam tomorrow (well in 5 hours), and then out of nowhere calls me a shit show creeper. SHE CAME ON TO ME. Goddamit Will Smith was right. They aint nothin but trouble.