Stepping Away from the Mystery Method/M3

[damha21]

Alright, so here are my goals for this weekend. I'd like to hear from those who call themselves at least RAFCs, but anyone can really reply. So the more I go out, the further I seem to be pulling away from the famous method taught in The Game. And in all honesty it seems more natural. Now don't get me wrong, I'm using the arsenal I have (Negging, Stories, and Kino). Anyway here's what I mean with the different goals:

1. Upon entry to this huge party on Saturday, I will find where they play Pong. Taking advantage of two things: I will challenge one of my non-wing friends (cause they dont know) in front of a few girls to Beer pong. "You suck dude. I bet she's better than you (Subtle Neg to the girl)." We got a win-win situation here. Either my friend, finds a teammate and then we play (does not matter whether you win or not, and neg opportunities are endless here) or he doesnt and I hoe him, the girl laughs and I'll say, "Well since we can't play because of this clown lets dance." So fellas tell me if this has flaws here.

2. I am still 50-50 on drinking. This week I am gonna avoid the hard liquor. Beer is good enough for me. Not really a goal, but w/e.

3. I want to avoid the situation where there's a girl givin her number to me when she got a BF. I have no idea how to avoid this.

Post your goals for this weekend. And Ideas for how to reach em. We'll all go full circle...

[rebel41]

The only thing I'm kinda veering from right now are their canned openers. Having a couple in the back pocket is nice, and I am always trying to make more. I haven't even gotten far into the Comfort phases yet with the M3 though.

1. Seems pretty good. I would have a plan B though just in case there is no music playing at the time or the music sucks. Maybe something like, "Well we can't play cause of this clown..." Sway like you are about to leave. "By the way out of curiosity, how do you know (so and so)?" Maybe the person who is throwing the party.

2. Do not drink! See my Field Report about this Tuesday. I may have screwed up one situation early.

3. I got no idea how to avoid that situation either.

[damha21]

You didnt screw up at all dude. That was brilliantly played (in terms of your field report). And remember, if it did fail, forget it.

Yeah I like that idea. About the plan B. Like I mean im not about to follow my plan to perfection. But my plan B is always something along what you said. This weekend I can't tho, haha cause one my friends is hosting the party. Its bout to be huge hahaha.

But hey go on more bout this Ninja Neg. On this thread or the other. You might have something here. It kinda goes along the lines of the BF destroyer lines Durden talked about: "I have a BF" , "Ok I barely know you, and you're venting all your problems on me?!" "I did this once, and she was like wtf. I thought he was hitting on me?"

This Saturday I'm driving, so it'll be good to test a completely sober night.

[Tarzan]

Yeah dude, I see myself straying away from the M3 more and more. I don't use negs on single targets (Bitchy, snobby girls are the exception--they dig it,) I've never Peacocked, and I phase shift like crazy. Mystery says not to phase shift backwards, but I've found it to be a pretty generalized form of push pull.

All good ideas. Beer pong's magical. Make sure though... if you're playing with the target... put her on the other team. You can neg and whatnot if she's on your team, but it works even better if she's on the other end of the table. Mainly because she can see you better. You can make yourself look distracted while she's making her shot, show disgust if she misses... blablabla. Pace it though. We all know how easy it is to get trashed via beer pong.

I, personally, use HB's with BF's as pawns. They almost always have single ladies hanging around them, and if you play your cards right, you can win over the set before your target walks in. If she doesn't have any hot friends, fuck it. Find someone else.

[damha21]

Competition man brings out the worst in girls, they become so preoccupied they put their bitch shields down and the game is yours to win. I like it.

I tried peacocking, i think i've mentioned once or twice before. My new impression of it, is that its a confidence builder for beginners i guess. I mean, the only advantage from peacocking is that the girls open to you, but thats it. You still have to do all the difficult stuff after it. But thats a different discussion for the rookies. One of you fellas start a thread about it if you want.

Tarzan, dog, you got some moxy to be doin that BF-pawn thing. I'd fuck that up cause I might give too much attention to the unavailable one, then my cocky attitude will get myself into a fight yada yada yada.

[damha21]

Nothing happened. I couldnt party. What a shitty week Mon-Saturday. Cheer me up here. You fellas run your shit, as planned?

[Tarzan]

Haha dude you're not the first person to say that... It takes some fine tuning. When I first started doing it, I got the stink eye from more than one person. But after awhile, you can project yourself as a fun person and people don't see it as too shameful.

I posted a FR on mine... Pretty much gave clusterfuck a whole new meaning.

Funny thing though, I was at a party with three different girls that I'd either gamed or wanted to game. One of them apparently told her friend about me... and you're going to think I'm lying my ass off.

They'd been texting me the whole night inviting me to a threesome. I slept through every single one of them.

I don't know what the fuck I did, but you can bet your ass that I'm going to keep doing it.

[damha21]

Haha no one would make something up like that. Its too original hahaha. Thats awesome. But it wasnt even like I could do anything. The party sucked, and my friends wanted to leave. Damn, thats awesome tho. I'll look at the report.

[Tarzan]

That happens more often than not.. I can't tell you how many times I've gotten seriously pissed because a supposedly badass party/club sucked balls. But you gotta have something to compare to the good ones!

[damha21]

this is true.