Need Help (Very Much)

[Under Reformation RAFC]

There is this girl i have been chasing after in church. With my new confidence , I managed to attract her enough to start having a little feelings for me.

But then ,when i realised she had to go outstation for about 2 months.It made me kind of upset and desprate and suddenly feeling very needy.and i texted her ( How is my baby doing ) this afternoon and no reply until now which is unlike her "" WHICH MADE ME FEEL EVEN MORE WORSE "".

is she testing me manliness?

is she pissed with me?


I thOught i have learned to control and kill my despration . But I can see it clearly in me and its making me feel so bad killing me inside.Well thank God at least i showed no despration in my actions , but i dont know weather my despration was detected by her with that text message.

Someone please help me with some GOOD ADVICE !!

thanks

[zinzile ncube]

read the gunwitch method buddy,its got just what you need.

[Tarzan]

Simplify please? What's outstation? How deep have you looked into this PU stuff?

[Under Reformation RAFC]

Out station meaning out of the state / province that we are living in and that it would take at least 2 hours to make a trip to visit her.

I have started to know about Pick Up skills about 9 months.

Anyways I need your suggestions.

[Tarzan]

First of all, you've got oneitis.

Second of all, why don't you just go out and sarge? Find another chick worth texting or making out with or whatever you want to do.

But yeah... don't look too far into it. There's a significant amount of variables that could cause her not to text you back. Maybe she fell asleep. Maybe she lost her phone. Maybe it died. Maybe she was talking to another dude. It really could be anything.

[damha21]

I was bout to write the same thing as Tarzan, but I didnt want to be too harsh. Reality is harsh though bro. But I got oneitis too man, haha. I'll explain it later.

[zinzile ncube]

like dnt gve her too much attention,dnt ask her y she didnt reply. call her and chart a little and hangup while the convo's still hype.

[Sharkbait]

I gotta agree with Tarzan- you got oneitis! Despite what you might think its not actually that bad a thing to have. When I had my last oneitis I went on a warpath pulling girls where ever I went. I reckon it was just because I genuinely didn't care what happened with any girl who wasn't my oneitis.
Just keep going and see what happens. But keep in mind that the odds are against you pulling a oneitis, I hope I'm wrong but past events prove it.