Casino1
03-02-2010, 07:42 PM
ROUND ONE
I met this girl 3 weeks ago, number closed her, kissed her on our first date, she than started flirting heavily for the next week and having long calls with me at night and said she wanted to be my girlfriend. I got invited back to her place on second date as it was late and we were close to her house. we were intimate in her bed though she was on her period so no sex. in bed the next morning she was drinking a lot and we indulged each other in romantic plans and I thought it was game over as we were in Love. I told her I loved her and thought she was the one. I thought it was game over as we were in Love.
The next day she breaks up with me by text saying she doesnt feel we are right for each other and we shoudlnt see each other or contact each other for a couple of months though she stated that she was scared she might lose me. I realise telling her i love her etc was wrong, but decided not to chase her or act needy adn left it at that. 4 days later i texted her to say i would like to meet again for drinks. she said yes, and we bagan flirting by text again having long calls again for a week until we met again.
ROUND TWO:
We met for a couple of hours and within 30 mins of drinking we started kissing again, that night she told me she missed me and the flirting started again, then she wanted to see me 3 days later, we met, kissed more and the next few days flirts by texts in a very sexual way. then a few days later she ends it again by text again saying she doesnt feel we are right for each other and we shouldnt see each other. Aain I agreed and decided i would not contact her for a few months. A week later she calls me trying to justify the break up, i respectfully disagreed saying i believe it would have worked and there must be another reason. She admits she is trying to get over someone she wanted but couldnt have because he didnt like her. i ended the call on a good note and decided i would give her time.
A week later i decided life was too short, Ihave to risk the pain of emotional investment, she is worth it. I exted her telling her i wanted to meet for a drink. she said yes lets meet next week. she then called me 10 minutes later but i amde sure not to speak for long at all as i dont want to get sucked into texting her or long conversations with her as i dont trust her and feel a loss of control.
ROUND THREE:
I'm meeting her in a week, this time i want sex more than LTR, but i dont know how to play it from here, do i go for broke and try to have sex or wor harder to get out of LJBF zone first?
Guys I would very much appreciate all help.
I met this girl 3 weeks ago, number closed her, kissed her on our first date, she than started flirting heavily for the next week and having long calls with me at night and said she wanted to be my girlfriend. I got invited back to her place on second date as it was late and we were close to her house. we were intimate in her bed though she was on her period so no sex. in bed the next morning she was drinking a lot and we indulged each other in romantic plans and I thought it was game over as we were in Love. I told her I loved her and thought she was the one. I thought it was game over as we were in Love.
The next day she breaks up with me by text saying she doesnt feel we are right for each other and we shoudlnt see each other or contact each other for a couple of months though she stated that she was scared she might lose me. I realise telling her i love her etc was wrong, but decided not to chase her or act needy adn left it at that. 4 days later i texted her to say i would like to meet again for drinks. she said yes, and we bagan flirting by text again having long calls again for a week until we met again.
ROUND TWO:
We met for a couple of hours and within 30 mins of drinking we started kissing again, that night she told me she missed me and the flirting started again, then she wanted to see me 3 days later, we met, kissed more and the next few days flirts by texts in a very sexual way. then a few days later she ends it again by text again saying she doesnt feel we are right for each other and we shouldnt see each other. Aain I agreed and decided i would not contact her for a few months. A week later she calls me trying to justify the break up, i respectfully disagreed saying i believe it would have worked and there must be another reason. She admits she is trying to get over someone she wanted but couldnt have because he didnt like her. i ended the call on a good note and decided i would give her time.
A week later i decided life was too short, Ihave to risk the pain of emotional investment, she is worth it. I exted her telling her i wanted to meet for a drink. she said yes lets meet next week. she then called me 10 minutes later but i amde sure not to speak for long at all as i dont want to get sucked into texting her or long conversations with her as i dont trust her and feel a loss of control.
ROUND THREE:
I'm meeting her in a week, this time i want sex more than LTR, but i dont know how to play it from here, do i go for broke and try to have sex or wor harder to get out of LJBF zone first?
Guys I would very much appreciate all help.