Do women shit test with body language?

[rebel41]

I seem to have hit a wall in my last few outings. Whenever I am progressing along and kino escalating with a chick, this happens to me alot. I am escalating, she is responding. Getting closer and closer, then, she starts backing out. Nothing drastic but I can tell, little by little she starts to pull back. My instincts are that I am moving too fast, and back off. But she doesn't chase me back, and we end up not closing.

Last night for example, this girl was a friend of a friend so I was just bullshitting with her. She was helping me come up with openers for other girls. haha. I could tell she was kinda into me and lonely. She just broke up with her boyfriend and was kinda trying to get back with him but it wasn't really working out. Then, bam that crap happened again. We were in a group so I couldn't find a way to isolate.

Could be a number of reasons I guess. I'd like to see what your takes are on it.

[Tarzan]

What do you usually talk about mid-game? Is it just fluff talk, are you trying to be funny, doing ESP tricks, etc? Does this happen when you're about to close, or just mid-game?

[rebel41]

I do about 75% being funny. If you split that 75% into 80/20, most of it is smart witty remarks to what others say. I should probably lead conversations more but that's not really my style. I'm not too great at it.

6% = Negs
14% = Storytelling
5% = Fluff talk as a last resort when I can't think of anything
0% = ESP and NLP tricks. I thought about doing these and I read a couple good ones but I haven't implemented them.

This happens mid-game. I haven't been able to isolate successfully yet.

I think I just figured out why this happens to me though. I am not using kino escalation correctly. Usually what I do is assume comfort building and slowly start touching her more. Start with our arms touching. Then we dance. From there I stand with my arm behind her. Then I put my hand on her waist. And it goes like that. The thing is I am just slowly increasing without rewarding her/punishing her for what she is SAYING. I bet that after a little while she realizes that it doesn't matter what she says, I keep advancing and it makes her feel like I just want sex. I have to only advance when she says something I like. Make it a one move advancement. Let it be known, but obviously don't point it out or look at it.

[Damha12]

Sorry on the slow uptake. For Kino, a subtle but one that really works is when you touch her elbows. I was watching a movie with this one girl and I had to be undercover cause her twin brother was watching with us. I was massaging her right elbow with my left hand on the couch. She obviously became aroused because she seemed a little friendly after her brother went back to his dorm room haha. Got a day 3 out of that work.

[stethoscoop]

Don't think she got aroused because you massaged her elbow, i think she got aroused because YOU were massaging her...

In the elbow is no feeling... have you ever pinched your elbow very hard? you cant feel anything...

[Damha12]

I guess. Yeah conclusion: Just touch the ladies, you're not in a museum fellas hahaha.