Tarzan
12-27-2009, 10:34 AM
There are two different types of AFC. The usual and what I've deemed 'the Gatsby'.
The usual average frustrated chump refuses to or half-ass approaches women. When a woman approaches him or shows ANY interest, he focuses almost all of his attention on her.
The Gatsby is somewhat different. If you're familiar with the Great Gatsby (most of us have read it in a highschool or college course), it's about a man who completely devotes himself to one woman, gives her everything he's got, then ultimately loses her to a complete dick.
The 'Gatsby' AFC is essentially this. A successful man, desirable by most women, who devotes himself completely to an uninterested woman. Obsession, basically. The rare form of one-itis where the woman shows little to no interest.
I've seen this everywhere, and it's honestly sad to me.
Case in point: I've hooked up with a girl (HB7) several times. Parties, my place, blablabla.
One party, Gatsby (we'll call him this for the sake of the post) passes out. We'll Tarentino this shit.
He's traveled hundreds of miles just to spend time with HB7. What happens? Tarzan negs, allows the two to mingle, Tarzan mingles with other women. HB7 sneaks away from Gatsby and pounces on Tarzan.
HB7 returns to Gatsby, but he's passed out! HB7 returns to Tarzan and drags him into a dark room, which is, coincidentally, the same room that Gatsby's sleeping in. Gatsby wakes up, sees, then goes back to sleep.
Gatsby catches an earlier flight back home the next morning. Pissed the fuck OFF.
Months later, communication between HB7 and Tarzan has ceased. Gatsby returns, buys HB7 jewelry, and they start 'dating'. Tarzan talks to HB7, and receives more IOIs.
Don't be a Gatsby. Presents might buy a woman's interest for a bit, but women are creatures of passion. Sounds gay, but if you show a woman a good enough time, she won't stop thinking of you. Being a Gatsby will only make her feel obligated.
Believe me. You do NOT want to be an AFC or a Gatsby.
The usual average frustrated chump refuses to or half-ass approaches women. When a woman approaches him or shows ANY interest, he focuses almost all of his attention on her.
The Gatsby is somewhat different. If you're familiar with the Great Gatsby (most of us have read it in a highschool or college course), it's about a man who completely devotes himself to one woman, gives her everything he's got, then ultimately loses her to a complete dick.
The 'Gatsby' AFC is essentially this. A successful man, desirable by most women, who devotes himself completely to an uninterested woman. Obsession, basically. The rare form of one-itis where the woman shows little to no interest.
I've seen this everywhere, and it's honestly sad to me.
Case in point: I've hooked up with a girl (HB7) several times. Parties, my place, blablabla.
One party, Gatsby (we'll call him this for the sake of the post) passes out. We'll Tarentino this shit.
He's traveled hundreds of miles just to spend time with HB7. What happens? Tarzan negs, allows the two to mingle, Tarzan mingles with other women. HB7 sneaks away from Gatsby and pounces on Tarzan.
HB7 returns to Gatsby, but he's passed out! HB7 returns to Tarzan and drags him into a dark room, which is, coincidentally, the same room that Gatsby's sleeping in. Gatsby wakes up, sees, then goes back to sleep.
Gatsby catches an earlier flight back home the next morning. Pissed the fuck OFF.
Months later, communication between HB7 and Tarzan has ceased. Gatsby returns, buys HB7 jewelry, and they start 'dating'. Tarzan talks to HB7, and receives more IOIs.
Don't be a Gatsby. Presents might buy a woman's interest for a bit, but women are creatures of passion. Sounds gay, but if you show a woman a good enough time, she won't stop thinking of you. Being a Gatsby will only make her feel obligated.
Believe me. You do NOT want to be an AFC or a Gatsby.