When you have this kind of GF

[holy_snoop]

What do you do when you have this kind of GF ;
*she kissed two guys while you've been broken.
*she doesn't put much of herself in the relationship
*acts like a biach
*still feels like she's not fall in love with you
*still has feeling for her EX
*always talks about her EX



I kinda don't know. Confused if there is what to work for or not. If that isn't a too much a job for getting a girl.

What do you think guys?

[Spen]

Hi mate , i've been here before and i have to say sometimes it works for a while getting back together , BUT even if you do get back together she WILL cheat on you at some point, I know thats a harsh thing to say, but my experience bears this out.
Now you have a couple of options
1) dump her , stop acting like a wuss, be a man and move on there are 7 billion other women out there !
2) get back together and enjoy the times you have together, while you can , but brace yourself for that inevitable day. ( have to say this is what i have done in the past / but not anymore)

or the new option 3
3) found this site called exgirlfriendguru.com he tells you how to get her back, and how to behave . But most importantly he tells you how to "train your girlfriend" , havent tried his methods yet, but wish i had known this stuff in the past.

these are only my opinions , and i'm sure more experienced guys would offer better advice

[Tarzan]

When you have a chick like that, you need to lose her fast. They're meant for weak guys. You don't want to be a weak guy. So find a friend who has mouth herpes and have her make out with him.

Women like that are totally not worth it. Unless you're considering a booty call (don't give her mouth herpes if you want a booty call!!!).

If that's the case, treat her like any other chick. Put your package on a pedestal. If she's not worth a serious relationship, she's definitely going to have to work to get into your pants.

[holy_snoop]

Ok, you answers seem very interesting.
What I'm going to do with her now is punish her.
Make her my FB. (She definitely has to work for my Package)

I think my best option with that kind of girls is to just keep them as FB's and move on and finding new girls to meet and get in touch.

[rebel41]

For sure. Especially cause she will see you with other girls and it's gonna drive her crazy with jealousy.

[Brock Landers]

You right now are low value in her eyes. By getting back together with her, depending on the circumstances, lowered your value. You cannot be Beta with these girls to begin with. I'll repeat that, you cannot be Beta with these women to begin with. Look, girls are lovely creatures, but if you cannot be decisive, set down rules, and be strong and stable, they will stray. You need to move on, but more over, work on your inner game. You have to embrace your inner Alpha. You have to be the Silverback Gorilla. Don't think like you are, BE THE SILVERBACK GORILLA!

[Tarzan]

Yeah dude. The only thing an HB can accomplish from being too easy is a steady stream of phone calls from drunk guys who want BJs.

[AngloRoman]

I posted a response to a similar problem in the beginner's section. I think the message stays more or less the same to be honest. I do, however have a further suggestion:

*Some PUAs base their materials on using girl tactics on girls. For example, mystery advocates "false disqualification", where you basically indicate that the girl "isn't your type", or deliberately pay the least attention to the girl you like the most in a group environment. You may notice that women who see you as a potential suitor will always do this to you if you let them. She'll try to disqualify you (you're too young/ old; I don't like blond/ dark guys usually etc). However, if you (falsely) disqualify her first, you've taken the bullet out of her gun and she'll, in fact try to win your approval back (in the context of meeting/picking up women, this is key in my opinion). To a certain extent, one could argue that this could be a good time to employ textbook "bitch tactics".

I think a good strategy would be to communicate that you're moving on, but NOT verbally (don't tell her anything, there is a better way).

Ask yourself, what does a woman do when a guy she cared about breaks up with her? Hold that thought for a moment.

She attempts to re-invent herself, right? Think about it. She buys more clothes, gets a new hair do. She allows the "old her" to die, she is "reborn" and now she's "over" you (she's obviously not, but she wants you to think that). She wants you to think she's looking elsewhere. So, this might sound a bit silly, but I would suggest getting a new pair of decent jeans and a new hairstyle (don't go over the top, but change your image a bit). Don't appear interested in her when you see her, but more importantly, don't try too hard to communicate that you're not interested in her either. THIS IS CRITICALLY IMPORTANT. Appear indifferent. If she tries to redicule you or belittle you about your new look, act confident and indifferent and do not show that you're offended in any way. Even if you feel your blood boiling, on the outside, you must appear unphased. She is testing you for consistency, so don't let her fuck with you. Do not let her phase you in any way.

However, if I'm being honest I must agree with the previous comments in that she's probably not worth it. Go out and meet some more girls and then when you have a few choices of your own, ask yourself again if she's the one you truly want. I responded to an AFC/ Junior PUA's problem a few days ago in one of the other sections of this forum (beginner's something or the other). I would suggest you read it. I also suggest reading all of the "before pick up" material this site is blessed with. This will give you a good grounding on how to deal with women in general. You will probably discover for yourself what you've been doing wrong and you will have a better insight into female psychology and how to deal with them and their little games.

Please post a response and let me know how it went. I'd like to know the results. Best of luck pal!