In order to attract a girl\woman, you must first understand why and how they think

In order to attract a girl\woman, you must first understand why and how they think. Why we have an effect like Attraction, and why\when it
happens...

The easiest way to understand\explain this, is 'Switches theory’. You know those on\off switches you have in your house for electricity? Now imagine 15 of those on one box. That’s how a woman’s mind is... everything they have in their mind are switches -- Is he attractive? Is he Good at sex? Off\On.

Every girl out there has a different set of switches, cause it really depends on their culture, their childhood and age, plus few other minor things...

But there are some common switches you must turn ON to all girls out there:

--He must be a challenge
--Alpha
--Interesting
--Unpredictable
--Good\average looking
--Not needy
--Is he good at sex?
--Does he have a sense for humor?
--Rapport
--Comfort
--Trust


Now, those switches can be either ON or OFF, there is no value in-between... for geeks, it’s all off

What happens when you switch on most of those switches?? Wow... she starts to be interested in me... actually... she starts to show IOIs (indication of interest). That reaction is totally normal -- she meets a guy, and this guy is funny, good looking, interesting, romantic, not needy... etc. of course she is interested in getting to know him better (read: sleeping with him).

Switching on those switches is also 'demonstrating personality'. You can do it by stories\routines\jokes or actions...

You can tell stories where you were romantic, or you go in front of the bar to watch a sunset... It doesn’t matter, as long as the 'he is romantic' switch is ON.

Every story or routine you have in your arsenal is saying something to her (switching on some switches). When designing routines\stories, first take a look what do you want to convey (that you are not already conveying with your look\body language).

The easiest way to switch On lot of switches is Body language & the way you behave\dress...

[alphadominance]

I think for AFC's understanding how women think is the number one obstacle. People tend to interpret other's actions through their own lens, and for cross-gender interactions this leads to no end of trouble. Most of us have tried to engage female friends or sisters to try to interpret women's actions for us to no avail. The reason is that mating activities, like anything critical to survival and reproductive success is largely driven by subconscious biological imperatives that cause us to act without knowing why we do what we do. Frequently I think people overlay their own justifications after the fact to prevent the cognitive dissonance feeling out of conscious control. Those qualities that make women feel attraction are the same which have led to reproductive success in our ancestors. These are the most potent attractors there are. If you can pass their biological fitness criteria and they are single you are in.
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[TheRevolution]

Good read.

Thanks man.

[KPrincess91]

7 Simple Ways to Express Your Love
It really is the thought that counts! Learn to say 'I love you' every day in these sweet and simple ways!

Saying "I love you” doesn’t necessarily mean an extravagant night on the town, two dozen long stem roses or serious bling. Here are some everyday ways to show your partner you are thinking of them!

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1) Love Notes
It takes 30 seconds to jot down those sweet nothings on a yellow Post-it. Stick it on the bathroom mirror or the refrigerator door before you leave the house for the day ... it will put a smile on your sweetheart’s face and start their morning off right.


2) Groove is in the Heart
Jump online and download a collection of your honey’s favorite tunes. Assemble them onto a CD and think of your very own clever album title.


3) Snack Attack
Surprise your significant other with their favorite guilty pleasure. It’s the simple things in life that ramp up our happiness factor, so whether it’s a peppermint patty, a vanilla latte or the occasional Krispy Kreme doughnut, paying attention to your partner's likes really means a lot to them.



4) Breakfast in Bed
Wake up Saturday morning and whip up a batch of blueberry pancakes or even some freshly squeezed orange juice, then deliver the goodies with a smile to your resting mate (but please, let them sleep in a bit first!).



5) Book Club
Does your guy or gal have a passion for vampire novels or science fiction? Browse through the bookstore on occasion and pay attention to what they are checking out when you shop together. Then, pick up a title or two when they're not looking!



6) The Human Touch
A fabulous foot massage or back rub can ease away the tensions of the day and be a great way to reconnect. Light a few candles, put on some relaxing music and enjoy a quiet evening decompressing together.



7) Day Pass
Create a homemade coupon that entitles your loved one to an afternoon off from carpooling, babysitting, house cleaning or the usual chores. They will appreciate it more than you know.

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Originally Posted by KPrincess91

7 Simple Ways to Express Your Love
It really is the thought that counts! Learn to say 'I love you' every day in these sweet and simple ways!

Saying "I love you” doesn’t necessarily mean an extravagant night on the town, two dozen long stem roses or serious bling. Here are some everyday ways to show your partner you are thinking of them!

ADVERTISEMENT


1) Love Notes
It takes 30 seconds to jot down those sweet nothings on a yellow Post-it. Stick it on the bathroom mirror or the refrigerator door before you leave the house for the day ... it will put a smile on your sweetheart’s face and start their morning off right.


2) Groove is in the Heart
Jump online and download a collection of your honey’s favorite tunes. Assemble them onto a CD and think of your very own clever album title.


3) Snack Attack
Surprise your significant other with their favorite guilty pleasure. It’s the simple things in life that ramp up our happiness factor, so whether it’s a peppermint patty, a vanilla latte or the occasional Krispy Kreme doughnut, paying attention to your partner's likes really means a lot to them.



4) Breakfast in Bed
Wake up Saturday morning and whip up a batch of blueberry pancakes or even some freshly squeezed orange juice, then deliver the goodies with a smile to your resting mate (but please, let them sleep in a bit first!).



5) Book Club
Does your guy or gal have a passion for vampire novels or science fiction? Browse through the bookstore on occasion and pay attention to what they are checking out when you shop together. Then, pick up a title or two when they're not looking!



6) The Human Touch
A fabulous foot massage or back rub can ease away the tensions of the day and be a great way to reconnect. Light a few candles, put on some relaxing music and enjoy a quiet evening decompressing together.



7) Day Pass
Create a homemade coupon that entitles your loved one to an afternoon off from carpooling, babysitting, house cleaning or the usual chores. They will appreciate it more than you know.

This stuff is gold dust dude.

[jpz]

cool article thank you for reminding us to demonstrate value and personality